@optik99 wrote:
Thanks a lot for your response. Yes, I may speak to my husband to sort this. I dont think I want to speak to her atm because its going to be a blame game for which I dont have energy.
That's completely understandable @optik99. You shouldn't speak to her if you don't feel like it will help you. Hopefully your husband can have some success and maybe start to resolve some of this for you. Take care of yourself and I wish you all the best.